10 Years: Why You Need Hope.

Ten years is the distance between my Daddy’s final breath on earth and first breath in Heaven. Ten Years. Today marks the end of those ten years and the beginning of the eleventh. I was 19 when he died of cancer. He turned 50 in the middle of his battle. He wasn’t just my father, he was my Daddy.  He … Read More

When 300 is Greater Than 32,000

I bet I’m not the only one who plays this game.  The comparison game.  Yeah, I think you know what I’m talking about.  Your neighbor just pulled up in their brand new Mercedes while you were out doing your typical MacGyver routine as you duck tape the exhaust pipe on your ’87 Honda.  You find yourself surrounded by a thousands … Read More

The trite blog I’m avoiding

I’ve been appreciating our fully blooming backyard all week.  It’s intoxicating with sweet fragrances drifting from our wisteria-covered trellis.  The vibrant colors of those purple blooms, pink cherry blossom trees, fuchsia azaleas, red, yellow, and plumb colored tulips create a panorama of delight.  Yet, in the tulip bed, there they are…the dandelions and various accomplices. That’s right, weeds. When I … Read More

If Those Dishes Could Dish

 You’ll have to excuse my absence from the blogosphere last week. My hands were stuck inside the cavity of a turkey around its frozen neck in search of the bag of giblets. I came dangerously close to both throwing up and crying. After several desperate calls to my mom to ask what exactly I was looking for since the giblet … Read More

Putting on That Old 45

Tonight I was writing a note of encouragement to someone who just lost her sister. As I was doing so, my husband put on one of my dad’s old records that I didn’t even know we had. The oldie, “Last Kiss,” began to play. It was a song that my dad and I always got excited about when it came … Read More